Destiny's child do not cry
I was not talking to Anuradha Rajbir Ma'am, I was talking to Dr Raja about my death and the book which I was reading "SENECA On the shortness of life", she over-heard it and we started the communication.
The talk was more with my contrarian views of the world and why I took my time so so seriously !
She too asked me many blunt questions which usually is my trademark and suddenly, she tagged me with "DESTINY'S CHILD".
I shrugged !
I was too busy to understand at that moment what she just said !
It took me 2 long days to analyze something about my life and others !
A pattern suddenly emerged !
A decade ago I was returning back from a ship and at Doha flight I sat beside a lady. Soon after the flight left, the lady was asked to change seat with a gentleman. I had achieved my 1st financial goal of my life and was a little lost ! The gentleman who sat beside me turned out to be a bit maverick ! He was Alexandros Tsachouridis of bike4peace.eu . Talking with him was very insightful for me, specially how he managed to survive and was traveling the world on a bicycle, jobless. He was much younger than me, quite obviously less mature and less responsible and happy bachelor back then ! His talks made me help survive 2 years of long non paid leave and learned about Inflation ! (Best stocks to buy today)
I tried to repay back by gifting him one of my favourite book - KEEP OF THE GRASS.
He could have sat anywhere in that long flight, but it was destiny that he sat beside me !
He could have remained busy with his writing, but it was destiny that he shared his views and solved some of my unanswered questions !
The flight could have crashed, but it was destiny that it did not !
When I was talking to Anuradha ma'am about Businessman vs Entrepreneur Vs Social entrepreneur, Mr. Rasik Pansare (Get My Parking) overheard and we talked to each other about start-up failures, depressions, business, work-life balance and how nobody is giving the young kids a reality check at Jagriti Yatra ! Entrepreneurship is being celebrated here as if it is a cakewalk !
I admit, I am a bit prejudiced with many things, including young entrepreneurs. I told him that I value only companies which have survived a decade to prove its Mettle ! Yet it was destiny, he talked with me ! It was a good learning for me !
His 1 biggest mistake "Premature scale up and too many diversification !" His management seemed impressive and I liked some of his decisions of not creating an app based company !
I was biased that Mr Tanmay Sharma aka Veggie Paaji would waste my time, and yet when he saw me sitting alone with JY Booklet at Berhampur platform he approached me as if he I was destined to meet me him !
What a great learning I had about you-tube digital media when talking with him ! Of course I knew SEO already but I used to look at You tube as another passing fad !
Mr Tanmay, to me was far more mature for his age, a rare thing in these days of arrogance and stardom seekers ! I wished him luck with a warning of creating a sell-able product, as soon, he will exhaust his energy on content creation and will drift to content copying !
His 1 biggest mistake "Trying to do everything by himself, learned the importance of delegation and outsourcing un-interesting things to other experts !"
Sanjay Dhawan sir straight answer for "NO PAYMENT" for writing Yatra Saar would have ended our conversation then and there, however it was destiny that he told me, he wanted to meet me in person ! What an experience to share our feelings (What if it does not make you happy !)
Suddenly everything in my life which seemed really bad at that moment seemed like all destined for a good learning and eventually good life ....
My IIT rank of 4014 was destined so that I can join Merchant Navy and not IIT and be blessed.
My fathers excess debt led me to learn about saving, financial planning and eventually successful stock investment.
My web developer cheating on me, led to hand code this website all by myself, which led to learn coding another skill set and extraordinary leverage !
My marriage to AB will eventually lead to something good one day for sure too ..... 
This leads me to think, was I actually destiny's child or are you too a destiny's child, perhaps you are crying too much and not accepting the better future which you are destined for ! Think about it !
I dedicate this post to Anuradha Ma'am, thank you again for being destiny's child which solved few of my questions in the yatra.
Glad I met you !
